Couples Counseling
Whether you’re dating, engaged, married, or considering separation or divorce, our highly-trained therapists are here to support you through the hard times in your relationship.
There are many reasons couples seek counseling:
To improve communication with your partner
To increase intimacy and passion
To prepare for marriage or other life transitions
To better understand your attachment style
To manage conflict in healthier ways
To feel seen and heard
Couples counseling is a safe space to process disagreements, grief and loss, in-law issues, infidelity, parenting discrepancies, financial stress, partner addiction, infertility, and other relationship concerns that can feel challenging to discuss without a trained therapist present to help you through it.
Through couples therapy, you will learn how to communicate and problem-solve effectively with one another.
If your relationship is under stress, consider scheduling a couples therapy appointment in our Raleigh or Wake Forest offices. We even offer virtual couples counseling sessions to make therapy more accessible with your busy schedule.
We provide a safe space for all couples- dating, married, life partnered and more- we are LGBTQI+ allied.
Raleigh, NC and virtually.
Relationships are hard.
Less stuck. Less stressed.
Common issues addressed in couples counseling include:
✔Communication
✔Intimacy
✔Division of Labor
✔Life Transitions
✔Managing triggers
✔Finances
✔Parenting
✔Infidelity
No matter what you're facing, therapy provides a supportive space to explore challenges, deepen connection, and build a healthier relationship together.
Signs You Might Benefit From Couples Therapy
✔Communication often leads to conflict.
Conversations quickly escalate into arguments, or you feel misunderstood no matter how you express yourself.
✔You’re struggling to rebuild trust.
After a betrayal, dishonesty, or broken boundary, it feels difficult to move forward without lingering doubt or resentment.
✔You feel emotionally distant.
There’s a growing gap between you—less connection, affection, or meaningful conversation than there used to be.
✔The same issues keep repeating.
You find yourselves stuck in the same cycle or argument, with no clear resolution in sight.
✔One or both of you avoid certain topics.
Important conversations about intimacy, money, or future plans feel tense, and often go unspoken.
✔You’re navigating a major life transition.
Marriage, parenthood, relocation, or grief is placing new stress on your relationship.
✔Your intimacy has changed.
Physical or emotional closeness has faded, and it’s affecting how connected you feel.
✔You feel more like roommates than partners.
The relationship feels functional but lacks emotional depth, playfulness, or shared joy.
✔You want to strengthen your foundation.
Even if things aren’t “bad,” you’re ready to grow together, deepen understanding, and invest in your future.
What to Expect in Your First Couples Session
A safe, neutral space for both of you.
Your first session is all about creating a supportive environment where each partner feels heard, respected, and understood — without judgment or taking sides.We'll talk about why you're here.
You'll both have a chance to share what brought you to therapy — the challenges you're facing, the goals you have, and what you hope to get out of the process.Your therapist will ask thoughtful questions.
Expect to explore your communication patterns, emotional connection, conflict history, and shared values. This helps your therapist understand your dynamic.
We go at your pace.
There's no pressure to share everything right away. The first session is about building comfort and clarity, not solving everything at once.No blame, just insight.
Couples therapy isn’t about deciding who’s “right” or “wrong.” It's about uncovering patterns, improving understanding, and working as a team.You’ll leave with next steps.
By the end of the session, you’ll have a clearer idea of what therapy will look like going forward — and maybe even one or two tools to start using between sessions.It’s the beginning of a process designed to help you reconnect, rebuild trust, and grow together with support.
Tools & Skills You’ll Learn in Couples Therapy
Setting Boundaries Together
Create mutual agreements that protect your connection and individual needs.
Rebuilding Intimacy
Explore emotional and physical closeness in a safe, respectful space.
Managing Life Stress as a Team
Navigate parenting, finances, and transitions without losing connection.
Couples therapy isn’t just about talking — it’s about learning practical, lasting skills that help you grow together. This section helps demystify the process and gives you a clear picture of what you’ll actually gain from sessions.
Healthy Communication Techniques
Learn how to express yourself clearly and listen with empathy, even during conflict.
Repairing After Arguments
Discover how to reconnect and rebuild trust after tough conversations or emotional distance.
Understanding Triggers
Identify what sets each of you off — and how to respond with awareness instead of reactivity.
Frequently Asked Questions
We understand that starting couples therapy can bring up a lot of questions — and that's completely normal. Below are some of the most common questions we hear from new clients. If you’re wondering about something that’s not listed here, feel free to reach out — we’re here to help.
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It’s completely normal for one partner to feel unsure at first. In our sessions, we create a space where both people feel heard and respected — without pressure or blame. Many hesitant partners find that once they experience the process, their concerns are eased.
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The timeline depends on your unique goals, challenges, and pace. Some couples come for a few sessions to work through a specific issue, while others benefit from ongoing support over a longer period. We’ll regularly check in to make sure therapy feels helpful and aligned with your needs.
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No. A couples therapist is there to support the relationship as a whole — not to judge, take sides, or decide who’s “right.” The focus is on understanding patterns, improving communication, and helping you both feel seen, safe, and supported.
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Yes. Therapy can be a place to gain clarity, explore your options, and have honest conversations in a supportive environment. Whether you choose to stay together or part ways, therapy can help you do so with intention and care.
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Couples therapy can support a wide range of relationship challenges — from communication breakdowns and conflict to rebuilding trust after a betrayal, navigating parenting stress, dealing with extended family dynamics, or working through differences in values or goals. It's also helpful for enhancing intimacy and connection.
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Yes, your privacy is a priority. What you share in couples therapy is kept confidential, with a few standard exceptions (such as safety concerns or legal obligations, which your therapist will explain up front). The goal is to create a space where both partners feel safe to speak openly and honestly.
Every Relationship Has a Story - Let’s Work on Yours Together
Whether you're rebuilding trust, learning to communicate with more care, or simply wanting to feel closer again, couples therapy offers a space to grow — together. This journey isn’t about fixing what's "wrong" — it's about rediscovering what’s possible when both partners feel seen, supported, and connected. Whenever you're ready, we're here to walk that path with you.
